Is it true, as they sometimes say in the non-dual world, that whatever is happening is not happening to anyone?
It is true in three ways: it is not happening, it is not happening to anyone, and it is not happening to anyone.
It is not happening.Â At least not in the conventional sense, the way it appears when filtered through stories. It is all the play of awakeness itself, taking temporary forms which appear real and solid – when filtered through stories and these are identified with.
It is not happening to anyone. Something is happening, not to someone or something, but within and as something. Within and as this field of awakeness and form, inherently absent of inside and outside, center and periphery, I and Other.
It is not happening to anyone. There is no separate self it is happening to, no I with an Other. It is all happening within the field of awakeness and form, already and always free from I and Other.
And it is not quite true in several ways.
It is happening. It is happening as the play of awakeness itself, taking on innumerable temporary forms within itself.
It is happening to someone. It is happening within, as, and – yes – to this field of awakeness and form.
It is happening to someone, although this one is the field of awakeness and form, and it is a one without an Other.
It is happening to someone. When there is a sense of a separate I, an I with an other, it certainly seems to happen to this separate I. It is experienced as happening to a separate I, and it is very real in that way.
Whenever there is an identification with stories, there is a sense of an I with and Other, and of Other happening to this I. It appears as very real, so it is real in that sense.