A few ways it is all for myself…
Whatever I do, I (already) do it for myself. I only need to notice.
When I help others or live in a way that seems good for the larger whole, I see that I do it for my own satisfaction. It feels good. It gives me joy. I do it for my sake.
Even when I follow a belief I have, I do it for my sake. A story seems true for me, so I act as if it is true because it seems right. As I find what is more true for me than the initial belief, I may change my actions or not, but I still do it for my sake. (The Work.)
And when I complain about something I am doing, I can do a simple inquiry.
For instance, I can make a list of things I do that I complain about, in a “have to” format. I have to pay taxes. I can then go through the list and change it to I want to… because. I want to pay taxes, because… I don’t want the consequences of not paying. (I am actually happy to pay taxes, but it is an example.)
So here I am seeing that I am already doing it for myself. I thought I was doing it because the government made me do it, but I now realize I am doing it out of kindness to myself – I don’t want the fines and possible jail time for not paying taxes. As I become more clear in this way, I may continue to do what I am doing, I may change the strategy, or I may decide to not do it anymore. (This inquiry comes from Marshall Rosenberg.)
Also, any advice that comes up for me is for myself, even if initially a story tells me it is for someone else. He should be more open hearted > I should be more open hearted. That feels more true. That is what I want for myself.
This goes for advice I tell myself comes from myself, and advice that comes from someone else – even if it appears to be for yet another person. It doesn’t matter. It it all for me. I can always find how it is true for me, and how I want it for myself.
And anything happening is an invitation for me to grow and wake up, it is for myself. For instance, anything happening is an invitation for me to investigate my beliefs around it, and find what is (already) more true for me.
It doesn’t matter what it is, where it is, or who it apparently is happening to. It is still all for me, as an invitation to grow and wake up.
And finally, all is the play of God, for God. All is the play of what I am – that which all happens within and as, for what I am.
So it is all for me… Whatever I do is for me, even if I don’t initially notice. Any advice that comes up is for me, even if I don’t initially notice. Anything happening is for me – an invitation to grow and wake up, even if I don’t initially notice. And all is the play of what I am, for what I am, even if I don’t initially notice.
- whatever I do, I (already) do for myself
- only need to notice, clarify
- any advice that comes up for me is for myself, even when a story tells me it is for someone else
- anything happening is an invitation for me to grow and wake up
- all is the play of God, for God