Taking care of own desires, and happy for the happiness of others

 

When I take care of my own needs, it is easy to find happiness for the happiness of others.

I take care of my own needs, and this brings a sense of satisfaction, alignment and of coming home. Whatever resentment and poverty mentality may be here from previously not taking care of my own needs, is released. And instead, there is a natural and spontaneous sense of gratitude and generosity. One of the ways this gratitude and generosity finds expression is as an satisfaction in and desire for the happiness and good fortune of others.

How does it look when I take care of my own needs and desires? I clarify them and find the most basic desires. I stand up for them, pursue them, speak them, won’t compromise them. Instead, I find flexibility and fluidity in how they are met. I have preferences for how they are met, but am also willing to negotiate and find other solutions if need be.

Inspiration: Working with Don’t Be Nice, Be Real, and also working with Kelly Bryson over the phone.

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– when take care of my own needs/desires
– then easy, natural to genuinely rejoicing in the happiness of others

– get out of poverty mentality

– satisfaction in and desire for the happiness for others

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When I take care of my own needs and desires, it is easy and natural to find genuine happiness for the happiness of others.

I take care of my own needs, and this brings a sense of satisfaction, alignment and of coming home. Whatever resentment and poverty mentality may have been here, from previously not taking care of my own needs, is released. And instead, there is a natural and spontaneous sense of gratitude and generosity. One of the ways this gratitude and generosity finds expression, is through an easy satisfaction in and desire for the happiness and good fortune of others.

How does it look when I take care of my own needs and desires? I clarify them and find the most basic desires. I stand up for them, pursue them, speak them, won’t compromise them. Instead, I find flexibility and fluidity in how they are met. I have preferences for how they are met, but am also willing to negotiate and find other solutions if need be.

Inspiration: Working with Don’t Be Nice, Be Real, and also working with Kelly Bryson over the phone.

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