Some beliefs around resolution and clarity.
I need clarity. I need resolution. I need to know what to do.
It’s not clear. It’s not resolved. I don’t know what to do.
I need to get my head above water. I don’t have my head above water.
Other people are more clear, know what to do, have their life together.
My thinking/actions need to be perfect. I need to transcend/go beyond my humanness.
If I don’t find clarity/resolution….
My life will get messy. People will be disappointed in/angry at me. My life will go downhill. I will make wrong/bad decisions.
My life can be messy/go downhill. It’s possible to make a wrong/bad decisions.
My life/things will get messy. People will get angry at me. (If I don’t find clarity/resolution.)
I need clarity before I can talk/have a conversation about it.
From an inquiry:
I don’t need clarity. (1) I know what to do now, and have a plan tomorrow, this coming week. (2) If life thought I needed it, I would have it. (3)
I need to not know: (1) It’s been a challenge for me in the past, so gives me an opportunity to work with it. (2) It may not be time to know, it may show itself later.