No one who says “I should love myself” knows what love is. Love is what we are already. To think that you should love yourself when you don’t is delusion. Isn’t the turnaround truer? “I shouldn’t love myself.” That’s it, for now. The truth is no respecter of spiritual concepts. Love is not a doing. And when you question your mind, you can see that the only thing that keeps you from being love is a stressful thought.
– Byron Katie