I did an inquiry on he makes me feel small from a childhood situation, and with that belief, I see myself as small and others as big, and find reasons why it’s so.
For the turnaround I make him feel small I also noticed how I have an image of myself as big. In my mind, I see him as small and myself as big, and find reasons why it’s so.
When I believe in the thoughts of small and big, I put these images on myself and others. In some situations, I put an image of small on myself and big on others. In other situations, I put an image of big on myself and small on others. And in each case, I find reasons why it’s so.
It’s all innocent. It’s quite painful until it’s recognized as just an image. And it happens with any thought – any images that comes in pairs – when I take them as true: Good & bad, kind & unkind, right & wrong, smart & stupid.