Kind vs nice

 

Kind is not always nice.

When I try to be nice, I see it comes from beliefs and fears. I try to please, make the other person like me, get something out of it. It’s confused love.

When I am  more clear, kindness is here naturally. It’s how I live my life. And it may not always look “nice”.

For instance, I am free to say no because it’s a yes to myself, and I have more clarity on the thoughts that would prevent me from being honest.

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– nice, from fears/shoulds/beliefs
– kind, from clarity

 

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