JYN: My mother over-praised me

 

Situation: My mother over-praising me when I was a child.

1. I am angry at my mother because she over-praises me.

2. I want my mother to be more clear, grounded, realistic, to give me a realistic image of myself, who I am, and my abilities.

3. My mother shouldn’t praise everything I do, she shouldn’t use praise to show her love, or to get approval from me.

4. I need my mother to love me as I am, and be realistic in her praise.

5. My mother is confused, hurt, misguided, doesn’t realize love is enough, unable to give realistic praise.

6. I don’t ever want to experience my mother over-praising me again.

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