C., I totally agree with what you wrote. I used to idolize the women I was together with until they disappointed me by turning out to be human. That concept is just painful. In fact, when I met my sweetheart last weekend, I noticed how happy I am that she is not perfect (like always kind, clear, loving, balanced etc). By loving her imperfection I love my own imperfection as well and that is very relaxing. It feels like a big relief to be human and genuine. No more fighting against mistakes. And when I look at her this way, I see pure beauty and am very grateful for that precious gift in my life. Idolizing never worked. It was just a concept in my head. I prefer wonderful imperfect humans now. Like myself 🙂RK in a FaceBook group for The Work
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