I have felt disturbed by people making noise since childhood – turning the newspaper, walking heavily, slamming doors, talking loudly on the train, loud music etc. And when I look at specific situations, I see that my underlying thoughts revolve around a common theme:
Has inner tension. Is frantic. Is internally out of control. Is unable to deal with the inner tension.
Will explode. Will blame me for it. Will go out of control.
Will infect me. (With his/her franticness, tension.) Will disturb my peace. Will get me out of balance.
Takes my peace away from me.