Following an awakening or opening phase, there may be another where “the lid is taken off” as Adyashanti says. A good amount of what is unquestioned, unloved, and unhealed in us comes to the surface, and we have little or no ability to set it aside or push it away.
It’s as if life wants to heal the human side of us, so we can become better vessels for the clarity, love, and awakening. The more we have questioned our unquestioned stories, the more we have found love for what’s unloved in us and our experience, and the more we have healed and matured as human beings, the better the clarity, love, and awakening can be expressed and lived through us.
For some, this may be more gentle and ongoing, and without dramatic “dark nights” of this type.
For some, it may be relatively short, or less intense. Perhaps if they already are quite healthy as a human being, and relatively free of what’s unloved and unhealed.
And for some, it can be quite dramatic, intense, and overwhelming. I seem to find myself in this category now.
Why is it more dramatic and intense in some cases? I suspect part of the answer is trauma. If there is more trauma – more that is unquestioned, unloved, and unhealed – this type of dark night may be more intense as well, and perhaps even last longer. There is simply more material to question, find love for, and heal.
The drawback then is that this phase may be more rocky, painful, and last longer, and it can impact ones life in many areas. The benefit is that there is an opportunity to learn a great deal through this process. And this may in turn even benefit others. There are plenty of examples of “wounded healers”.
– dark night of the soul
– life wants to heal the human side of us, so we can become better vessels for clarity/awakening- question the unquestioned, loved the unloved
– if a lot of trauma, the process can be more rocky – more painful, longer
– a “deep cleaning” of archetypal, universal, personal material (which are all the same)
From an email I sent: I forgot to mention that those episodes of clarity (liberation) can be followed by unhealed material coming to the surface. It seems that the awakening wants to heal the human side of us, so we can become better vessels for the clarity/awakening.