Velcro, identifications, and trauma are here and now, and from the past.
They are here and now, and cannot be found in the past or future. We cannot even find past, future or present outside of what’s created by images, words and sensations.
At the same time, velcro, identifications, and trauma were initially created and formed at some point in the past, often in early childhood. And it can be very helpful to look at that, question the painful stories, and find love for what was unloved. One way to find these early events is to ask when did you first have that thought?, or when do you remember first having that feeling?
It’s frequently said, and it seems to be true enough, that childhood trauma is behind a great deal of what we struggle with as adults.
So which one is it? Are these things here and now? Or found in the past? It’s both, as so often. It’s all happening here and now, and within that we can find painful stories of events from early in our life. And it’s important to look at these, and find some resolution and healing.
It’s also neither. At some point, it can be helpful to look for velcro, identifications, and trauma themselves. Can I find these outside of my images, words, and sensations that create an experience of these?
And unfindable doesn’t mean doesn’t exist or that they are not helpful stories or pointers in some situations. They can be, for instance, in finding healing.
– here and now, and from the past
– velcro, identifications, trauma
– here and now, cannot find it in past or future, and cannot find past/future/present- also, timeline, go back, when did you first think/feel that? find early event, look at that
– so here and now, and in the past (imagined past)
– both important, both here