To oppose something is to maintain it. … You must go somewhere else; you must have another goal; then you walk a different road– Ursula Le Guin
This is true in ourselves and in the world.
Sometimes, it is important to oppose something in order to avoid harm. These are what Joanna Macy call holding actions. But in general, if all we do is opposing something, it tends to be maintained and even grow stronger.
It’s important to create, envision, and live what we want to see more of – in our own life and in the world.
And it’s also important to question our more deeply held assumptions and find another way of looking at ourselves and the world that’s more aligned with reality and more life centered.
It also helps to understand where the problems come from and how they are created. In our world, it’s often systemic problems, world views, and trauma. And behind that, fear. In ourselves, it’s often the same.