Order of turnarounds

An inquiry friend shared that she has been experimenting with a certain order of doing the turnarounds, and as I tried the same I found it very interesting and helpful. First try the turnaround to self, then other, and then the opposite.

In my case, it was (a) I should treat me as a friend, (b) I should treat him as a friend, and (c) he shouldn’t treat me as a friend, he should treat me as an enemy. I started with what feels most true for me, and this allowed me to find more and more genuine examples for the two next turnarounds.

Also, when I find examples I find it helpful to find as many as possible in the situation of the inquiry, and then expand to other situations and my current life.

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