Is awakening overrated? As usual, the answer may be yes, no, and it depends.
Mainly, it depends on how we rate awakening and what we expect from it.
MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT AWAKENING
Some people have misconceptions about awakening and engage in wishful thinking.
They may assume it will fix all their problems. It’s a state that doesn’t allow for any discomfort, sadness, anger. It may give us special powers. And so on.
This is what Adya calls the “dream of the ego”. When we assume we most fundamentally are a being in the world, this is what we think will fix what seems wrong.
If our motivation is some form of wishful thinking, then awakening may seem overrated. It’s far more simple and more ordinary. It won’t fix our problems. It’s not a state. (Apart from a state of noticing.) It doesn’t give us any special powers.
DARK NIGHTS
There are also several challenges in the awakening process.
We tend to go through several types of dark nights. Periods where we are faced with whatever is left in us of old assumptions, identifications, and unprocessed materials.
These periods can be among the most challenging things we have experienced. They bring us to our knees and beyond.
If we assume the awakening process is only pleasant and we live through a dark night, the awakening process may seem overrated.
HELD TO A HIGHER STANDARD
When we live from noticing our nature, life tends to give us swift and strong feedback if we are out of alignment with what’s true for us. When we stray from authenticity, sincerity, and kindness, life tends to show us and not always in a pleasant way.
If we assume the awakening process is all about freedom, and we notice that life holds us to a higher standard of how we live our life and there is – in some ways – less freedom in how we live, we will get sobered up. The more invested we are in the idea of freedom, the more a part of us may see the awakening process as overrated.
WHAT WE ALREADY ARE
Awakening is about noticing our nature and living from this noticing.
It’s about noticing what we already are.
We may assume that awakening is about something far away and special and unfamiliar. When we discover that it’s about what’s already here and what we – in a sense – are more familiar with than anything, a part of us may feel that awakening is overrated.
WON’T SAVE THE WORLD / NO QUICK FIX
Similarly, if we assume awakening somehow will save the world in a conventional sense, or fix anything apart from our mistaken identity, we are in for some healthy disillusionment.
PROFOUND TRANSFORMATION
There are also several ways awakening is not overrated.
It brings a profound shift in what we take ourselves to be.
It brings a profound transformation in our perception.
It brings a profound shift in how we relate to anything.
And when we live from noticing what we are, it – over time – invites a profound transformation of our human self.
INITIAL OUTLINE
- is awakening over-rated?
- yes
- misconceptions
- a lot of people have misconceptions about awakening, wishful thinking
- assume it will do something for them it won’t, at least not as they imagine
- drawbacks
- there are challenges in awakening
- dark nights, unprocessed material surfacing
- less leeway in how we behave since the consequences of being out of alignment (authenticity, sincerity) often are immediate and strong
- misconceptions
- neutral
- is what we already are
- is already here, just don’t notice
- isn’t something far away or “over there” in others, past or future, etc.
- won’t save the world, no quick fix
- is what we already are
- no
- does allow for transformation
- transformation of what we take ourselves to be, our perception
- transformation of our human self within this noticing
- sense of coming home
- does allow for transformation
- ….
- yes
….
We may find that our nature is capacity for the world as it appears to us. And that the world as it appears to us happens within and as our sense fields, it happens within and as what we are.