I marry into a large and social family where most of them get together almost daily in a large house. I am told they have chosen me to one day inherit that house, and say I am honored and will continue the tradition of hosting the gatherings in the house. The family is of all ages, the interactions are free and healthy, and I love being part of it. (Although also feel a bit like an outsider since I am not used to it from my own birth family.)
This dream mirrors my previous one of soul friends. In this case, it’s a large and warm extended family getting together informally daily in a large house. I love it and feel grateful to be part of it.
Why was I chosen to inherit the house?
In the dream and now, my sense is that it was their way to show me that they trust and love me and want me to feel included. They hand over the responsibility to me, knowing I will continue the tradition and do what’s best for the family as a whole.
Why did I dream this now?
Maybe because I am with my birth family in Norway, and wish it had been more like this. (And loved it at the times it was more like this.)
Maybe also because I love my extended family in Norway, and have a lot in common with most of my cousins.
And definitely also because I did marry into a family like this, a year and a half ago in Latin America. The dream reflects my waking life there, and I wish to be far more part of it. (Especially as I learn better Spanish.)
In waking life, I was responsible for us buying a large piece of land where my wife’s father and mother will build their houses, and perhaps also others. I have always wanted to be part of an intentional community like that, where we live on a large piece of land and have separate houses.
In general, the dream may nudge me to host gatherings more and bring this more into my life. (I used to do it a lot more than I have over the last few years, and the change has mostly to do with my health.)
What does it mirror in me?
Dreams often mirror waking life and more directly my inner life.
The dream may reflect a wish to be that kind of house and host. To have the inner environment to host these types of warm and social gatherings of many different parts of me.
It may reflect that this is already happening and that my system is moving in that direction.
How can I be a better host for my inner community?
Marry into a large and social family
I am to inherit a large house that’s center for the informal daily gatherings (not yet but at some point in the future)
I say I will carry on the tradition and take my responsibility seriously, place it central in my life
Is in England or the US, very nice family, all ages, love each other, very social with each other and as a group