Situation: Facilitating The Work.
Beliefs
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My energy reserves are low, fragile.
I use a lot of energy by focusing.
Focusing requires effort.
If I don’t space out, I’ll be tired.
My client requires me to spend energy.
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I need to save energy.
I don’t have enough energy.
My body doesn’t have enough energy.
My mind doesn’t have enough energy.
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There is energy.
It’s my energy.
My energy can be high or low.
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By spacing out, I save energy.
By distracting myself, I save energy.
By avoiding facilitating, I save energy.
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Spacing out is easier, more comfortable.
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If I don’t have enough energy….
I won’t get it done.
I will space out, be distracted.
I won’t facilitate well.
He/she won’t like me.
I will be too passive.
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Mini-inquiry
TA: Spacing out does not save energy. (i) It creates stress, which takes energy. (ii) I feel more drowsy afterwards.
TA: Being focused saves energy. (i) I am more engaged, so I feel I have more energy. (ii) I don’t have the stress of not following what’s happening. (iii) Attention is on what’s happening, the client, my own inquiry, not distracting (often a bit stressful) thoughts.
TA: Energy saves spacing out. (i) When I am engaged, I feel I have energy, so I am not drawn to spacing out.
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That’s a funny look at “saving energy”